How to Deal with Relationship Problems | GRWM

How to Deal with Relationship Problems | GRWM

Everybody deals with relationship problems, but sometimes we don’t realize these problems are here to help us learn, heal, and grow. I wanted to share my thoughts on how to deal with relationship issues because I see everybody dealing with them (myself included). This chat focuses on the frustrations you may have with your significant other/friends/family and the desire to want them to change.

One thing I should have mentioned first is how important it is to COMMUNICATE. Honest and clear communication is key in any relationship! I realize I could go on and on with more advice so let me know if you want to see more videos on relationships! Comment all your questions below as usual šŸ˜š. Sending lots of love for your journey and growth!

// timestamps
0:20 – instead of focusing on what’s wrong, focus on what’s right
1:06 – wanting your loved one to change
2:55 – ask: what can I learn from this?
4:32 – release your expectations
5:34 – learning to love yourself unconditionally
6:15 – abuse & recognizing your boundaries
7:48 – best thing you can do instead of forcing someone to change
8:28 – relationship tips recap: patience, loving unconditionally, self love
8:51 – relationships are mirrors, they reveal where you can heal & grow

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